We are keeping it quiet this year. For the last few years, we have always made a big deal during Christmas. We always felt obligated to really show the 3 kids how spectacular Christmas morning can feel. We always went overboard with gifts and spent way too much. This year we focused more on the ”togetherness” of the season. Making cookies, decorating the house, donating items at toys for tots, Christmas games, and activities has been filling the house up with the holiday spirit.  And I think the family itself is more relaxed and comfortable. The adoption was finalized in the spring and everyone feels a bit of relieve from that. The kids are settled into school by now. There is a sense of peace and serenity here, which is a great feeling. Of course, Santa will be stopping by our house next week but his bundle will be a little lighter than usual. Happy Holidays!!!!!!  

Kimberly Wragge  http:www.kimsautismawareness.com

The kids and I are on winter break from school. We try to go out for adventures every other day during the 2 week vacation. This reduces the “cabin fever” that they sometimes get. So, today we took a family field trip to the Liberty Science Museum in NJ. It was our first time, so we were all extra excited. The kids did great during the long 2 hr car ride. Thank goodness for MP3 players and hand held games. Once we got there, we realized that everyone had the same idea that we did. It was very crowded. The exhibits were mostly hands-on, so the kids were able to interact and play games with them, which they loved. And we all learned a lot of cool things about science while we were there. Destiny’s buddy (respite worker) also came along to enjoy the day. Destiny needs 1:1 supervision at all times in the community, especially in a place like this. At times, she needs to take a break from the over stimulation. Or she needs individual redirection when she can’t do what she wants. So we always have an extra adult with us. I brought bag lunches to help cut back on the cost of the day. I refuse to pay $7 for single serving of chicken nuggets. The kids loved their PB&J sandwiches. We always look for places like this where you’re allowed to bring your own lunches. It can get so expensive if you have to buy form them. We did go through the gift shop but were able to leave there empty handed. It was a wonderful experience that encouraged more positive family time and valuable academic learning. And since everyone was on their best behavior, that may the day so much more enjoyable!!!