Archive for April, 2009

It’s Adoption Time!!

Thursday, April 23rd, 2009

Our family is about to be a legal family. We have waited 3 years to adopt these precious children and our time is finally here. Our adoption is set for Tuesday April 28th. We are all so excited and relieved that this day has finally come. The children are especially excited to celebrate this event. We have been talking about “adoption” for so long and now they can do through the experience. With Destiny, we have been saying that she is going to get a new last name and that she is going to be in the Wragge family forever. It’s hard to figure out how much of it she understands but I think she gets it. Jasmine is happy to be in a “forever family”. We call ourselves a forever family so she feels secure and knows that she is here to stay with us. Derek is happy about being adopted but probably doesn’t understand it completely. It will be a wonderful time for us to close this chapter of foster care and continue on our journey as a family.

Annual Review Time

Monday, April 6th, 2009

Well, it’s that time of year again. It’s annual review time. This is the time when parents meet with their child’s education team to discuss their child’s progress and recommendations for next year’s program.The different options can leave parents feeling anxious and overwhelmed. I have a few survival tips for parents during these meetings.* Bring copies of your child’s current IEP and any progress notes or report cards so you can follow along when the teacher goes over his/her progress.

* Before going into the meeting, know what options are available and, if possible, visit future classrooms.

* Bring a friend or, if needed, an educational advocate if you think you need the support of another person.

* If you start to feel pressured or you disagree with the recommendations, “table” the meeting until you contact an educational advocate. Tabling a meeting means you are requesting to stop the meeting where it is and reconvene when you can get the support of another professional. Parents often don’t realize they have this right.

Remember you are your child’s voice and you know what is best for them!