Archive for January, 2009

“Is it Real?”

Thursday, January 22nd, 2009

Usually, I take every opportunity to educate someone about autism. Such as what the symptoms are, what are possible treatments, etc. I never criticize anyone for not being informed. But I had this experience last week that I have to share.
I was in the ER getting X rays of my back. (I was in a minor car accident on Friday) The X ray technician was making small talk with me. He asked what I did for a living, etc. So I began to tell him that I was an OT and I specialize in working with children with autism. Then he says “Oh really, Tell me something, Is it Real?” When asked to clarify, he said “Well, it seems like those kids are just really bratty and are faking autism to get what they want.” Thank goodness the X rays were done because I jumped off that table and started yelling at him. How dare he say that. I lose control of my temper and instead of politely taking the opportunity to educate him, I just called him some names and told him how ignorant he was. I know I should of handle it better but I was sick to my stomach with his ignorance and felt the need to strike back and defend our children. Maybe when I have calmed down, I will go and speak to him in a more professional manner so he can change his views about autism and how serious it is.

And the driver on the bus says…….

Monday, January 12th, 2009

Ask yourself how much autism training a regular bus driver has received, and the answer will be “not a whole lot”. Yet the bus driver is responsible for the child’s safety under a sensory overload conditions that can lead to stress. Sensory overload can include the noises from the other children, the sudden stop/go motion, etc. Communication between parent and drivers (and monitors) can be as simple as a tip sheet. A tip sheet can quickly and effectively give them valuable information such as possible triggers of behavior, likes/dislikes, and simple strategies to use “in case”, and activities that can be done on the bus to keep the child busy. Destiny has had some major bus dilemmas. I found that having a tip sheet is a good way to communicate. Destiny also wears her headphones to reduce the noise level. She is allowed to have a book and Magna Doodle with her. Also gum chewing helps calm her down. Schools should take more interest in providing the bus drivers (and monitors) with special educational training. Safety means more than just seat belts and harnesses. The environment needs to be able to support and manage the needs of the child.

Happy New Year!!

Thursday, January 1st, 2009

Well New Year’s is supposed to be a time when you reflect on the year before and make goals for the next year. My New Year’s resolution is to have more “balance” in my life. I sometimes feel like I am running a juggling circus act. Raising kids, working as an OT, housework, and maybe finding a little time for myself is difficult sometimes. Guess which gets the shortest end of the stick? I know it’s important to make time for yourself but how many working mothers can actually do that. There is just not enough hours in the day to do everything. But today I vow to balance my life in a way to include more time for ME!!!!